An Age Old Story
It’s an age-old story. Your child is a little angel at school; kind, polite, helpful and caring towards their teacher and other children, but at home it’s a different story - tantrums, not doing what they’re asked, fights with siblings and answering back.
How to deal with difficult or aggressive behaviour from your child?
All children have moments when they lash out in anger by swearing, shouting, throwing or kicking objects. There are times when the aggression they show can seem particularly frightening and out of control, whether it’s to parents, other family members or outside the home.
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How does it make the parent feel?
Parents often feel helpless and in despair about their children’s behaviour and unsure of the best approach to tackle this. It is not uncommon for parents to feel responsible for their child’s behaviour. We often hear the term “I love my child but don’t like them at the moment”. When parents are in this situation, it is the behaviour they dislike, not their child.
How can I help?
Some parents feel ashamed to admit that they can’t control their children’s aggression and are reluctant to talk about it. Especially if the aggression is directed at the parents. If you are facing a similar issue in your home, it may feel like you constantly have to walk on eggshells, not knowing what could trigger another outburst. You may be feeling isolated and unable to share this with anyone. You may fear being judged for your child's behaviour.
It is important to seek support and advice when you feel it is the right time for your family. Together, we can explore concerning behaviours being displayed. We can agree a whole family support plan, offering opportunities of change.
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